If we examine the life of an average
human, we come to realize that life consists of four periods. Childhood: This
usually lasts for thirteen to fourteen years. The teenage years which usually
lasts for six to eight years depending on when he gets married, (The Period of
Youth). The third part of his life is from the time he gets married until his
old age, which usually lasts for merely twenty to thirty years, and then lastly
his old age whose exact time period cannot be said with certainty, depending on
when death takes him.
Now out of these four parts of an
average human life, the most crucial stage of his life is the period of youth.
The period of youth is a time when a person goes through many changes and
experiences; he undergoes and partake many new things which he has never
experienced before. The youth begins to feel as though he has control over the
whole world, and that he can do whatever he wishes. His desires are increasing
day by day becoming attached to the opposite sex, he enjoys lustfully gazing
and flirting with them..
Now, this is that period of his life
that if he was to control his desires a bit, and sacrifice a few of these
devilish desires, he can become a future role-model for Muslims. He can become
a leader for his community, and the biggest achievement he can gain is success
in the hereafter.
As being admitted into paradise, and
being saved from the hell fire, is, in reality truly the greatest success a
person can gain. Allah has described this as a ‘great success' in the Holy
Qur'an.
The reason why this period of human
life is so important and crucial is because this period of youth is generally
what determines the way in which this period of his life is spent. If he spends
this period of his life in an Islamic environment, visiting the Masjid for the
five daily prayers, associating with the pious people and the true scholars of
Islam, sitting in their gatherings, then, it is greatly hoped that he will
spend the rest of his life in the same way.
On the other hand, if the youth
stays away from the Masjid and doesn't associate himself with the pious and
scholars of Islam, but spends his time visiting the pubs/clubs, associating
himself with girls and mischievous people, then it is most likely that the rest
of his life will be spent in a similar manner, away from the Masjid and away
from Deen, except if Allah wishes otherwise.
Just like everything, life is also a
gift from Allah and every aspect of it should be regarded as a gift and a trust
from Allah. Allah expects us to spend this youth in His worship and obedience,
seeking knowledge of Islam and acting upon it. This in itself is a form of
gratefulness.
In a Hadith, the Messenger of Allah
said
that the feet of the son of Adam will not be able to move until he is
questioned regarding four things.
Out of these four questions, one
question asked will be regarding how one spent his time as a youth. In another
Hadith, the Messenger of Allah
has
said that on the Day of Judgement, there are seven types of people to whom
Allah will give shade to. It is stated in Bukhari that on the Day of Judgement
there will be no shade except for Allah's shade. And from amongst these groups,
one group will be those youth who spent their youth in the worship of Allah.
The reason being is because a youth
has many desires, so whosoever goes against his desires and controls them in
this delicate period of youth, and obeys the command of Allah, and tries his
best to follow the Islamic Shariah, in such a time of his life when his desires
are at their peak, then Allah will give him a great reward.
Once the great Imam Abu Hanifah
(rahamtullahe alayhe) was giving advice to his student Imam Abu Yusuf
(rahamtullahe alayhe). He said that in your youth you should spend your time in
seeking Islamic knowledge, and thereafter seek a job, and when you get enough
money then you should get married.
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